Homesteading communities are groups that share your passion for the self-reliant lifestyle. It's wonderful knowing that other people out there share your beliefs - not to mention the joy and satisfaction you feel from growing your first tomato and learning how to milk a goat.


And wouldn't it be great to not feel like an odd duck just because you like making your own soap?
After all, your parents are terrified at the prospect of you living alone on that large acreage, and when you start talking about how fun goats are, your friends stare at you like you’ve just sprouted a second head.
What's a poor homesteader to do?
Actually, there are ways to find others who share your homesteading zeal. Here are seven ways to get you on the road to friendships with other like-minded self reliant folks.
Thanks to our modern-day technology, you can live in an isolated area and not be isolated. Look for a local online homesteading group, and if you don't find one, start one.
Post your own comments regularly about your homesteading passions. If you were looking for an online group that focuses on homesteading in your locale, chances are, someone else will be as well.
Librarians tend to have a great wealth of information anyway, but the librarian of a small rural town might help you find and create communities passionate about homesteading by giving you names of those who own goats or cows, make and sell cheese and sell hay and vegetables in the summertime.
Such activities are the sign of a homestead addiction. Visit the library in person, and you can leave fliers advertising your new local online yahoo group (see above).
If you have children, this is a great way to get to know others in your area who are as passionate about self-sufficient living as you are. And your kids will have fun too.
Homesteading and homeschooling tend to go hand in hand. Become self-reliant about growing your own food, and you'll soon become self-reliant-minded about how you want your children educated. Go online and find your state homeschool association (virtually every state now has one).
Look up online groups and contact them to help you find homesteaders and homesteading communities. They are bound to know one or two self-reliant people in your area.
I met a woman I eventually bought my dwarf goats from while waiting to pick up feed from a feed supply store. She told me about three online homesteading groups in my state.
Homesteaders tend to have critters, and that means they'll be frequenting these places regularly, so these are excellent places to locate homesteading communities. Ask the manager if he knows of anyone you can contact, and while you're at it, ask him if he has a bulletin board where you can post one of your flyers.
You can find these by doing an online search and typing in the name of your state along with the phrase "livestock auctions". Find an auction that is close by and spend a morning there. You'll not only get the chance to locate homesteading communities, but you'll also learn a lot of useful information about livestock.
A great one to help you locate local homesteading communities is Country Life and Homesteading. Join them, and then ask if there are any other members from your area.
I threw in this extra one because it's so important. Take the time to get to know your neighbors. No, you don't need to become best friends (although that may happen), but develop a positive relationship with your neighbors. That way, should an emergency strike, you'll have neighbors you can rely on, and someone you can help as well.
So, get proactive in getting to know them. Throw a block party or informal barbecue. That way, your neighbors will get to know each other as well as get to know you. Too often, we've become isolated even from those who live closest to us. Building a community with your neighbors will also help when your rooster starts crowing at 6 a.m. Share your eggs with them, and they'll be less likely to complain.
My name is Sue Merriam, and I began the journey of self-reliant living more than three decades ago, which enabled me to stay home with my children. Fifteen years ago, I founded Joyful Homesteading to help others save money and face the future without fear. My goal is to give you practical, honest advice so you can save money and experience the joy of simple living. I hope you join me.